When our son was 4 years old, he did typical 4-year-old things. Some of them were funny and some were annoying. I found myself getting angry or showing frustration a lot. I needed to come up with a different strategy. I composed a little saying for those potentially frustrating situations. I simply said, “Life with a 4-year-old.” So, I’d see the mess or experience the tantrum or the crying. After coming through all that, I’d say to myself, “that’s life with a four-year-old.” It seemed to help. It just reminded me that this is the reality of life with a young child. I’d say it in his presence. So, he heard me and I assumed he didn’t really connect the dots that I was talking about him. Well, a few days after I started doing this, I heard him say something similar. I thought he was repeating my saying. “That’s life with a four-year-old.” I thought, “Oh, how cute, he’s imitating me.” But when I got closer, I realized he was saying something different. He said, “Life with a 40-year-old.” Well, I was forty. What was he talking about?